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Praising God for our growing family

Our growing family August 11, 2009

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April—Grandparent time and loads of rain May 4, 2015

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“April showers…” certainly held true this month. Whew! Glad to be in the “May flowers” part!

Abigail Grace

As she grows, she continues to get braver. She’s been doing things that, for her, are incredibly risky: standing on swings while swinging, riding her bike down hills, swimming lessons. So proud that she’s beginning to overcome her fears. As a typical first child, she is incredibly concerned about branching out at the risk of not being perfect the first go around. We’re working on that with her. She continues to love her ballet lessons and reading, reading, reading. Constantly reading—and writing, for that matter! This gal is a reading/writing fanatic. She was SO excited to tell us that the book fair was coming to her school: “There are SO many books!! Which ones do you think I should get?”

Madilyn Joy

This gal has very few fears, it seems. She loves her swimming lessons and has cried when they end. She is a speed demon on her balance bike (nearly time for a bike with training wheels to learn some pedaling) and has no fear of hills. She enjoys climbing to the highest point she can at a playground and hasn’t met a slide she wouldn’t try. She wants to read so badly and has all but begged David and I to teach her. We will soon–probably once summer is here. Madilyn is also big into board games and loves when David, Abigail, and I join her in a family game. It doesn’t take her long to master the rules of a new game, and we’re constantly impressed with her ability to participate in games a bit above her age range. Puzzles are also a favorite right now—100 pieces is the highest we’ve let her try. Need to buy a few high piece level ones!

Madilyn started soccer this month too—with David as her coach! She’s really committed to the game and has been learning the rules from David. All this activity has made Madilyn get significantly stronger and increase her endurance. So nice!

Naomi Hope

We had such high hopes for eliminating the thumb sucking. She was a left-handed thumb sucker, so we covered the left hand. Then she discovered she could suck her right thumb. So we tried to cover both. That was a disaster in the sleep-department. So we consented for the time being until we figure out another plan. She’s probably teething again because her fingers—and sometimes most of her fist—are ever present in her mouth. She’s holding strong with 12 teeth, and we’re just waiting for those incisors and/or molars to pop through and round out her toddler smile. She has become quite a mama’s girl and will start exclaiming “Mama! Mama! Mama!” whenever she hears my voice on the phone or when I walk through the door and start talking. It’s adorable. She’s added a few more words this month—all with the same starting sounds she’s already mastered: d, t, b, m. It’s so cool to see her grow and learn about the language in the world around her. Her utensil usage has gotten a lot better, though we still help her some portion of every meal. She’s obsessed with food like her older sisters and will fall apart if it’s near a mealtime but we’re not eating the moment she thinks we should. Ha!

“Jumper”

Had our first appointment with the midwives for our home birth, and all went well. Unfortunately this month I had incredibly intense sciatica pain and pelvic separation pain. It got so bad, actually, that there were numerous instances during my work day when I just couldn’t take another step secondary to the pain. Thankfully, “jumper” has shifted his/her position, and that pain has subsided.

“Jumper’s” heart rate was in the 130s/140s, and he/she was all over the place during the midwife’s attempt at listening to the heart rate longer. I am measuring right on track, and have enjoyed the onset of fetal hiccups, frequent movement—even getting to watch some of the movement, and have had fun letting the girls feel for the baby. So sweet.

Notable Events

I’m sleepy while I’m typing this, so a list will have to suffice: April fool’s day, Easter (girls were sick, but we had an egg hunt around the house that was fun), David planned a men’s camping trip, I started PRN shifts at two other buildings in an effort to save up for “Jumper,” David’s parents came to town, James had a birthday party, we dedicated Naomi at church with my parents in the audience, and David has had several job interviews with local companies; praying progress continues!

 

March 2015—in like a lion? Nah, pretty tame. April 2, 2015

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We definitely had weather ups and downs in March, but for the most part, it’s been nice. And we’ve been HEALTHY all month long. I’m writing this blog a couple of days into April–and one day after Naomi stayed at the YMCA’s childcare for 1 hour. She’s been up hacking over and over tonight. Surgical masks at the ready!

Abigail Grace
Not a whole lot to report aside from her growing love for her sisters and fascination with the growing baby in my tummy. She has felt the baby kick, and it thrills her to no end! Recently, she’s gotten into picking Naomi up and giving her hugs. Also, she’s showing a lot more empathy toward Madilyn—a welcomed improvement! Ballet is still her thing, and she loves practicing her recital piece.

She misses me so much when I’m at work, and she tells me as much. One day early in March, I was able to get off of work early. I decided to surprise her at school for lunch, not sure how she’d react. I knew she’d be happy, but you never know exactly how Abigail will respond to a surprise. When her class came walking down the hall and she saw me, she exclaimed under her breath, “Mommy!!” and as I walked toward her to give her a hug, she broke down and cried. “I am so happy you came to see me at school…can you stay for a long time?” heart.ripped.out.

Madilyn Joy
I feel like I type this every month, but she is truly the sweetest little kiddo. She will ask to snuggle nearly anytime I’m sitting down, will go along with most every idea Abigail throws out there for something to do, offers to help David and I throughout the day, and beams like the sun when she gets to be the helper at preschool. She loves to wake Naomi up in the morning (as does Abigail)—and by “wake Naomi up” I mean “walk into the room where Naomi is squawking and say ‘Good morning!'”

She is dropping her nap little bit little and will skip a nap every few days. Recently, David has been taking time with Madilyn on skipped nap days to teach her soccer. Her practices through Upward Sports start mid-April, and soccer is sort of David’s thing. Madilyn has LOVED the one-on-one time and has picked up the basics really quickly.

Madilyn also lets me know how hard it is to not see me all day, so on the day I surprised Abigail, I surprised Madilyn first. She had a much different reaction—positive still, thankfully! She stood up in class when I got there to pick her up and said proudly, “Everyone, my mommy came to pick me up today! Hi Mommy!” Big hugs and kisses followed.

Naomi Hope
This big girl is 16 months old and changing and developing so much with each new month. We have started to train her on utensils, and so far, she’s rocking it out with her fork; the spoon is a little more difficult, though the items we’ve given her to scoop are thin and not really ideal. Fail.

We are also beginning the process of breaking the thumb-sucking habit. She only sucks it when she’s sleeping, but hearing horror stories from other parents about how long that habit can hang around, we decided to try and nip it now. Just like we did with Abigail (who only sucked her thumb for a month), we put a sock over Naomi’s hand at naptime and tape it in place. It only took one day before she understood and would start holding her hand up for us to put a sock on at nap and bedtime. Heh.

Other new changes: first pig tails, climbing all over–including walking up our ridiculously steep driveway, is smiling on command—though it’s a bit crooked and growly (haha!), and she understands so much of what we’re saying. New words this month: ba for ball, muh for milk, a true “mama” when referencing me (hurray!!). She has all her teeth except 8—missing the incisors and 2-year molars, though she appears to be working on some now.

Baby 4
We had our ultrasound, and though I looked up once when the technician was in the vicinity, I didn’t look hard enough to see anything. Looked right away! Baby looked good and healthy—measuring at 9oz. My mom came with David and all three girls It sounded like a beautiful experience in my head, but the execution of it was much different. The baby is just as active as its big sisters, and both Abigail and Madilyn have felt the baby kick.

Per David’s suggestion, “jumper” will be the nickname for baby 4. Twist, Kick, and Flip have a fitting little sibling!

Notable events
March meant a couple of pretty cool things: the END of my Clinical Fellowship Year—paperwork has been submitted, and I’m waiting on final confirmation that I’m a fully licensed and certified Speech-Language Pathologist; the beginning of covering a maternity leave for another SLP which means increased hours; the beginning of PRN (as needed) work at two other facilities in the area to start saving money for Jumper; additional editing jobs—also to save money, and David’s job search kicking into super high gear. Oh, and then there’s this other little thing: my little brother got MARRIED! Welcome to the family, Chelsey! The big girls were in the wedding, and I was a bridesmaid and played accompaniment for a singer. We had loads of fun, and the girls really dance the night away. Precious memories.

 

February: under a sick cloud February 28, 2015

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There were some very bright spots in the midst of constant sickness (basically a non-ending cycle of colds). We finally tossed all the medicine, and all 5 of us ate huge salads and veggie filled smoothies every single day for 2 weeks; we’re all healthy now! “Let food be thy medicine” -Hippocrates

Abigail Grace
No significant news to report. She’s still doing great in kindergarten and loving reading and art. I think it’s just a part of being in a large classroom setting, but she’s been invited to a bunch of bday parties. It’s been sort of refreshing to see her decide not to go to several of them because she’s not that close as compared with when a church friend (most of whom are really close) asks, and Abigail gets stoked and can’t wait to buy a present, etc. She’s got a better grip on friendships now, it seems. Also, she cannot wait to be in Greg and Chelsey’s wedding next month as a flower girl and LOVES ballet—recital in May.

Madilyn Joy
She turned 4 in February, and is looking more and more grown every month. As a special birthday treat, my parents took Madilyn to Greenville with them by herself for an “Adventure with Grandma and Granddaddy” for a whole day. She soaked up the attention and was bursting with stories about her experiences when she got back. She also had her 4-year old check up: 39″ tall (3ft, 3inches), 40lbs, and her eyes and ears were within typical range. Her weight was a little high however (Abigail was the same height at 4, but 7 lbs lighter), and has been since she was 2. We kept thinking she’d grow out of it because honestly, we eat a pretty clean, plant-based diet. However, when we discussed portion size with her pediatrician, he confirmed we were giving her too much—even though it was all healthy. Too much of a good thing. I’m writing this blog over a week into March (more than 3 weeks since scaling portion sizes), and we’ve seen a remarkable shift in Madilyn’s physical appearance and ability. So glad it appears to be an easy fix!

Naomi Hope
She is now 15-months old, and at her check-up, she was 26lbs 14 oz, 31″ long, with a 19.25″ head. Like Madilyn, the weight was high (2+ lbs heavier than both older sisters at the same age and same length). Scaled back portions for her, and noticed a difference very quickly. Whew! She’s super protective of me and won’t let David even hold my hand without losing her mind and trying to take our hands apart. Haha! She’s going from sitting to standing without holding on, doing more fine-motor tasks (e.g. “playing” the peg game at Cracker Barrel), adding final consonants to some words (e.g. duck is no longer “duh!”, it’s “dut!”), dancing lots, trying to interact more with her sisters in play, loves baby dolls (will carry them around, patting their backs or feed them a bottle), loves animals, and gets legitimately tickled over the silliest things. She’s loud and independent and has entered her first real defiance phase. Whew. We’re working to nip that in the bud as best we can. She is a joy, though!

Baby 4
Had an appointment for this little one on the 11th: heart rate at 147bpm, measuring on track, and discussed home birth with the midwife there who used to perform home births (and had both her kids at home). Just shy of 18 weeks pregnant and started feeling the baby kick last week. Hoping David will be able to feel it before to long. Such a neat feeling! Ultrasound scheduled for March 3. Haven’t given much time to name discussion as of yet; still have our boy name, of course, but need to come up with a girl option just in case! Suggestions for a nickname for this one? We’ve used Flip, Twist, and Kick for the others :)

Notable events
A list for reference: Madilyn’s 4th birthday party with 4 friends (Maggie, Laila, Josephine, and Tyler); Wee-Trade—did great and spent less than $300 for summer clothes and games for all three girls), Greg and Chelsey’s wedding shower in Greenville—(I helped host); David’s and my 8th wedding anniversary—the second anniversary we’ve spent during a pregnancy; a huge ice storm—ice that fell on top of fallen snow; snow storm with sledding and snow angels; a ladies’ night in at our place filled with making chocolate strawberries and talking about just about anything we could think of—so much fun…I truly cherish the lasting friendships I’ve made here in Asheville.

 

It’s Positive again! January 31, 2015

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It’s official; the final installment in the Mertens family will be arriving in August. Check the post below for my play by play prior to telling anyone.

Abigail Grace
The most noticeable change in Abigail over the past month (and really over the course of the past 2-3 months) has been the speed at which her pant legs have shrunk. They were all incredibly long at the beginning of the winter (having to roll them up twice), and now, she can nearly wear them without rolling them up at all. Growth spurt! She’s doing really well academically, and we’re continually amazed and the sheer amount of assessments/testing she has to endure—most of them timed and stressful. Come on, public schools, she’s only 5. She’s still enjoying kindergarten but is so wiped out at the end of the day and asks if she can just stay home for a few days. When she was sick recently and got to miss a day from school, she took 3 long naps during the day and was a totally different kid–upbeat and obedient. I agree with what a friend of mine said, “We give away our kids’ best time to the school, and we get the leftovers.” It’s so true. Working to rectify that.

Madilyn Joy
She’s nearly 4 years old and a bundle of joy and happiness most days. She wants to learn to read, and I’m debating initiating that training mid spring. She’s gotten quite adept at coloring inside the lines and loves to put on shows for her sisters and me and David that involve costumes and tap dancing and singing. No stage fright for this one. She has been a bit more whiny lately, but she’s also complained of hip and leg pain (growing pains!). She’s definitely growing out of her clothes and is comfortably in 4T items. Debating getting her 5T stuff at Wee-Trade in a few weeks at the rate she’s shooting up!

Naomi Hope
In the past month, Naomi’s walking has taken off, and she now gets around really well. She’s starting to climb more and more and has nearly figure out how to bump down the stairs on her belly (feet first). She’s gotten a few more words added to her vocabulary—yes (and will nod her head), head shake for “no,” mama (FINALLY!), Aba (for Abigail), woo woo (for woof)—so cute! Her receptive language ability is skyrocketing, though. She’s able to follow lots of simple commands and is pretty effective at expressing her message even if the words aren’t there yet. She’s still a great eater and is starting to learn the use of a fork and spoon on a very limited/controlled basis.

Baby 4
No nickname for this one yet. We got to hear the baby’s heartbeat in mid January–159bpm, and I got to say “au revoir” to “morning” sickness. I started feeling much better by the end of the month! Our big ultrasound is March 3, and we don’t plan to find out the gender, instead allowing David to participate in delivery and announce the gender at birth like he did with Naomi. We’ve also started setting money aside for the wee one’s birth because–hello!–my insurance and ultimate maternity benefits are abysmal. This baby will be 100% out of pocket. Praising God for his provision, though, because I was recently asked to take on an extra 10-15 hours a week to cover for another SLP’s maternity leave, and I’m heating up the freelance editing channels again too to boost income. Only got 5-6 months to save nearly $5,000. Eep!

Notable events
The beginning of this month marked the start of a new year and the end of Christmas break. It was really hard sending Abigail back to school. At least she got to go to her first bowling party before school started back. Fun times! We took a grand total of 6 pictures in the month of January. I had taken the month off from Facebook, and it was incredible to just enjoy family without feeling like I needed to snap 100 pictures in order to commemorate every moment. We did have a busy month with AWANA, mommy/daughter exercise (M/Th/F, Abigail and Madilyn and I do workout DVDs downstairs—so fun!), Hands On museum fun, David’s job search kicking into high gear, me working full time at Deerfield, girls’ night out with connect group gals, and more! You’ll just have to use your imagination :)

 

It’s positive x4—a brief diary January 26, 2015

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(Below is a brief log of my thoughts and experiences before we shared our news with the world!)

11/30–I’m a week late; haven’t told David yet. This would mean we got pregnant on his birthday just like we did with Abigail–this due date would be August 3rd, 2015!

12/7–two weeks late and told David. He’s in shock like me. Didn’t we just have Naomi?

12/10–took a test this morning, POSITIVE! Family of 6, here we come! Oh, and feeling rather horrible. Nausea starts within 30 minutes of waking up and fades for 30-45 minutes after eating only to come back again. Hoping this only lasts to the 12-week mark

12/15–made an appointment at MAHEC for January 14–at the 11.5 week mark. After the appointment, we’ll start telling folks. Seems like with each baby, my body gets into gear quicker. I swear my hips have already widened because my stomach is the same but my pants are tight in the hips. Eep! Sending ESP signals to my recently pregnant friends to hang on to their maternity stuff!!

12/25–Merry Christmas! Went to Greenville to see my parents and grandparents. No odd looks or questions (whew!) but had a hard time stomaching the huge meal. It was delicious, but I got full way too fast.

1/14–had our first OB appointment, 11.5 weeks. Heard a strong heartbeat of 159 beats per minute! I’m measuring right where I’m supposed to be for 11 weeks. Another appointment February 11, then anatomy ultrasound early/mid March! Told prayer group, and the ladies were dually amused and surprised. They knew we were on the fence about a 4th baby and had joked that they were just counting the days until I showed up pregnant. Ha! Also told my boss who reacted really well. Had lunch with a grad school friend, Elizabeth, after the appointment (she’s due Feb 7 with her first), and it was fun to swap pregnancy stories. We plan to tell parents this weekend.

1/15–Planning to tell the big girls tonight. Hope they’re excited! UPDATE: they were thrilled and started talking to the baby right away and asking how big it is. They both keep toggling between whether it’s a boy or a girl.

1/16–looked into my insurance and maternity benefits—horrible. This baby will be out of pocket. Considering a home birth because it’d be 50% less than a hospital birth. And considering Naomi arrived in 2.5 hours from first contraction to delivery, it might be the best option.

1/18–have told both sets of parents, grandparents, and brothers, and they were all equally shocked and excited. So nice to have the cat out of the bag! Ready to tell the world, now!

 

December: the most wonderful time of the year December 31, 2014

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In December, we wrapped up another year of transitions for our family—the majority of which happened from May and on. Graduation, new job, kindergarten, 4-year preschool 5-days a week, new house. Whew. Busy year, but one full of blessings.

Abigail Grace
She continues to love reading, puzzles, and any sort of memory/matching game. She got her own hair brush this month (had always used a comb to date), and she has adored coiffing her own hair and making it “Elsa soft.” Abigail has also gotten into building things. She’s enjoyed blocks in the past, but David’s parents got the girls a set of MagnaTiles, and Abigail has built all kinds of creative structures. Perhaps an engineer at heart? And she’s got enough Christmas spirit for the whole family as she was upset nearly to tears to hear that we had to take the Christmas decorations down in January (they went up the day after Thanksgiving!). “Mommy, can we leave the stockings up all year?” I ultimately had both Abigail and Madilyn assist in taking down the ornaments from the tree and removing the lights so that they at least felt a part of the process.

For as well as she’s done at school (academically, anyway), she has thoroughly enjoyed the time at home and does not want to return to kindergarten on the 5th of January. She does a lot better at home and is much better behaved and motivated. If we were in a position to, we’d likely homeschool. For the time being, David and I have laid out a schedule so that both Abigail and Madilyn will have a one-on-one date night with both of us separately each month. Madilyn’s date with me is next week. Abigail’s the following. Should help with some of the homesickness.

Madilyn Joy
This gal loves to help out with just about everything and is pretty go-with-the-flow. She adores Naomi and really looks up to Abigail. She and Abigail get into spats daily, but they’re quick to make up. Madilyn is still the jokester of the family and loves to perform. In fact, at her preschool performance, she was quick to spot us in the crowd and wave as hard as her arm and hand would allow. She didn’t look nervous in the slightest, and she was right on point with all the songs/hand motions, etc. Whatever this one becomes when she grows up, she’ll have an audience for certain.

Naomi Hope
Her first steps were on Thanksgiving day, and she’s continuing to add to the distance she can walk. She still prefers to crawl or walk while holding a hand, but we know she’ll get it in time. She’s taking one nap a day from 12:15-3:15pm or so, and if we are out and about around that 12:15pm mark, she passes out regardless of place or position. She’s still a really great eater and is easily bribed (if needed) to eat less desired foods with applesauce or bread. Heh. She has all her 1-year molars and 7 additional teeth through; more are starting to come. All this has made for one ornery baby. Combine that with the fact that our pediatrician suspects Naomi has an umbilical hernia (praying it’ll correct on its own), and she’s a mess for some portion of every day. When she’s in good spirits, however, she’s a goofy, outgoing girl.

Notable events
A list to save time:
-Christmas parades in Hendersonville and Fletcher
-Caroling with the Band of Friends at Crowfields
-We hosted the kid-free Christmas party for our Connect Group—12 Bones for 10 couples; so nice!
-I volunteered at Abigail’s Christmas party at school, and David helped out at Madilyn’s
-We made 20 bags of sugar cookies and chocolate peppermint cookies and delivered them to local firestations, gas stations, and the airport to those working on Christmas day. We then came home for presents. It’s a nice way to get the focus where it needs to be: on giving.
-Went to Greenville twice for Christmas—once to see Greg and Chelsey, and the other time to see my grandparents; both times to see my parents. Had a great time!
-David’s parents and their dog, Simon, came to stay with us a night following Christmas. The girls loved all the grandparent time!

 

November: A month of many thanks November 30, 2014

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This past month found our family with a sense of awe and humility at the blessings God’s granted to us. We are so thankful for his provision and feel so fortunate to be where we are today considering where we’ve been the past few years. We are thankful for new friendships and the strengthening of old ones, family ties, getting settled in a new house, laughing kiddos (at least some of the time!), and being challenged to grow stronger as individuals and as a family. Happy Thanksgiving!

Abigail Grace
This girl has always loved having books read to her and showed an early interest in reading, but as of late, her reading ability has really taken off. I wish I had more time to nurture it at home as I feel like she devours any book set in front of her and doesn’t get as discouraged as she used to when she comes across a more challenging word. So cool! Thanks to an early Christmas gift from my parents, she started ballet lessons this month and is really enjoying it. It’s only one day a week for 45 minutes which is nice, and she’s picked up on a lot of the terminology already. “Mommy, look at me passe!” She’s made buddies with a 5-year-old up the street (as has Madilyn) and the girl’s older sister. It’s so nice to just let the girls run up to a neighbor’s house to play on a whim. Oh yeah, thankful for living in a neighborhood!

Madilyn Joy
Abigail started ballet, and Madilyn started “Creative Movement” which is essentially an intro to rhythm and dance in general, but she gets to wear the ballet leotard, tights, and slippers. Dance is right up her alley, and she talks frequently of dancing in her fairy wings and twirling and balancing on one leg like a ballerina. It’s kind of adorable. She is the most outwardly loving kiddo of ours as she pours out affection through the day to all of us—especially Naomi. She plays with Naomi with the same gusto that David and I do. A little mama.

Naomi Hope
So this “baby” girl turned 1 this month. At her check-up, she weighed right between Abigail and Madilyn at the same age: 22lb, 12oz. She was 29.5″ long with an 18.75″ head. She had another nasty cold this month which morphed into an ear infection. Combine that with getting all 4 molars, and you’ve got a recipe for an ornery kiddo. In developmental changes, Naomi is down to 1 nap most days lasting 3 hours or so, took her first steps on Thanksgiving day (up to 8 steps now), is stacking blocks a bit more gracefully, waving hi/bye, signing for more/all done/milk/eat/water, saying dada/(ba)nana/mama/and “da” when pointing something out.

Notable Events
Running behind on posting this month (it’s actually 12/7 today…), so here’s a list of what went down in November for me to reference later:

-snow day on November 1
-Band of Friends singing practice
-David’s 31st birthday
-Naomi’s 1st birthday
-GNI at our house
-Thanksgiving at home
-Tree shopping at Boyd Mountain Christmas Tree Farm

 

 
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